Who do I work with
All women, sometimes men, all the deep feelers who need support to take their power back.
For millennia, women have been conditioned by this power killing equation:
A good woman
=
a potentially good wife
=
a woman who accommodates others first
You didn’t only adapt to “good girl conditioning” psychologically, but as well physiologically.
It changed your original nervous system, and this updated version, designed for you to put your life force at disposal, is interfering too often between what you want, and what’s actually happening in your everyday life.
Does it sound like you?
– feeling depleted, holding tensions in your body
– feeling disconnected from your body, living in your head most of the time
– feeling disconnected from your desires
– feeling isolated, in need of a better support system, fed up with doing it all alone
– experiencing relationship anxiety, often finding yourself in a position of chasing or waiting
– experiencing a freeze when you want to express yourself authentically, ask for what you need, or set up boundaries
– feeling disconnected from everything and everyone, losing your inner aliveness
– feeling “blocked” when it comes to intimacy and sexuality
– feeling flat after orgasm / having no orgasm
– dealing with shame about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality
– dealing with shame about expressing your sensuality
– losing energy from overdoing or wanting to control
– accommodating others first and keeping yourself small
– feeling insecure and competitive with other women
– feeling stuck in some toxic relationships patterns
– feeling oversensitive and overwhelmed
– struggling with visibility when it comes to your career
– experiencing a brain fog when the topic is money
– hearing “something is wrong with me” as a broken record in playing in your head
One “yes,” or more?
Sadly, I’d say that’s the case for most women.
You are not broken, and you are not alone.
The good news? Your nervous system is a living organism — it’s plastic. We can support it to change, and to come back to its native tongue.
If you’ve already worked with talking modalities and felt them reach their limits, you’re going to love this somatic approach.
I’ve done so much work, and I’ve loved every bit of it — but I truly wish I’d come across the somatic tools I use today, earlier in life.
It’s good to understand why things are the way they are. But it’s ten times more thrilling to feel the change happening in you — and from there, watch everything shift in your relationships.
Recovering the capacity to take the wheel, and switching off the automated Good Girl mode, feels like landing on another planet — full of new people, new places, new possibilities.
It’s about feeling your power in your body. But more than that, it’s about using it when you relate.
From that place, and only from that place, you can create relationships that feed you — instead of depleting you.
Power is relational.
You were never meant to accommodate everyone but yourself, or to do it all alone.
Let’s return to a nervous system that wanted you at the center of your own life.