Who do I work with
All women, sometimes men, all the deep feelers who need support to take their power back.
For millennia, women have been conditioned by this power killing equation:
A good woman
=
a potentially good wife
=
a woman who accommodates others first
You didn’t only adapt to “good girl conditioning” psychologically, but as well physiologically.
It changed your original nervous system, and this updated version, designed for you to put your life force at disposal, is interfering too often between what you want, and what’s actually happening in your everyday life.
Does it sound like you?
– feeling depleted, holding tensions in your body
– feeling disconnected from your body, living in your head most of the time
– feeling disconnected from your desires
– feeling isolated, in need of a better support system, fed up with doing it all alone
– experiencing relationship anxiety, often finding yourself in a position of chasing or waiting
– experiencing a freeze when you want to express yourself authentically, ask for what you need, or set up boundaries
– feeling disconnected from everything and everyone, losing your inner aliveness
– feeling “blocked” when it comes to intimacy and sexuality
– feeling flat after orgasm / having no orgasm
– dealing with shame about your body, your sensuality, your sexuality
– dealing with shame about expressing your sensuality
– losing energy from overdoing or wanting to control
– accommodating others first and keeping yourself small
– feeling insecure and competitive with other women
– feeling stuck in some toxic relationships patterns
– feeling oversensitive and overwhelmed
– struggling with visibility when it comes to your career
– experiencing a brain fog when the topic is money
– hearing “something is wrong with me” as a broken record in playing in your head
One “yes” or more ? I would say, sadly, that it’s the case for most women.
You are not broken, and you are not alone.
The good news is that your nervous system is a living organism, it’s plastic. So we can support it to change and come back to its native tongue.
If you’ve already worked with talking modalities before, and you feel it reached its limits in term of efficiency, you will love this somatic approach.
I have done so much work, I have been passionate about all my studies, but I really wish I could have come accross the somatic tools I have today earlier in life.
It’s a good thing to understand why things are the way they are.
But it’s ten times more thrilling to feel the changes in you, and from there, seeing everything shifting in your relationships.
Recovering the capacity to take the wheel, and switch off the automated Good Girl’s mode, feels like landing on another planet with so many new people, places and opportunities !
It’s feeling your power in your body, but most importantly, using it when you relate.
From that place only you can create relationships that feed you instead of depleting you.
Power is relational.
You were never meant to accomodate anyone else but you, or to do it all alone.
Let’s return to a nervous system that wanted you at the center of your own life.